djarvik wrote: Assuming a string job lasts me a week, what kinda tension difference I should be going for?
Too many variables to say, really - it takes a bit of experimenting.
The question I'd ask is: Would you rather a string job be too tight, or too loose? If you rather chance it being too tight, I'd go about 5 pounds tighter. 2-3 pounds if you'd rather it be too loose. If I'm unsure, I always chance it being too tight, since it will loosen - if it's too loose, you have to restring.
Pick a number and try it; adjust accordingly the next time. If you're impatient, try a few frames at one time, each with different tensions. Chances are, one of them will be right (or pretty damn close).
The pros have it great: fresh strings with fresh balls..... every freaking time. Must be nice.

Regarding the denting, consider this: Luxilon states that their strings don't move after 24 hours. That's because they need about 24 hours for the memory to set in. Most polys have the same characteristics. I have a feeling that what you're experiencing is something different - what it is, I don't know.
"Feel" is so subjective - it's probably the biggest obstacle I deal with on a daily basis. For instance, when players say they like strings where the ball stays on the strings longer - even though it is all but impossible for a human being to tell the difference in how long the ball stays on a racquet for different strings. The difference is milliseconds, and no one can discern that.
However, it is what it is. If someone doesn't like something, then it's not my job to convince them they're wrong. I just file it away in memory, move on, and hope that something else comes along to shed more light on it.
I'd love to spend a few weeks working with Djarvik on finding the "perfect" string. You seem to be very picky, which, as I tell customers who apologize for being too picky, "Without picky players, good stringers don't matter".
BTW, on the subject of stringing: I got one of these recently


I spent several weeks testing different machines, including the famed Babolat Star 5. After a few minutes with the Wilson Baiardo, the winner was clear. It is, quite simply, the best machine ever made.