by beltic caldy » Sun, 08 Jan 2012 16:58
welcome back man! i know we've had the odd....difference of opinion, but all good healthy open discussion, in a sense!
you're very candid and I completely agree re alcohol - had a good long battle with the stuff myself....wouldn't even say i won, more a case of i choose to no longer engage (much like a debate with a certain type of woman....)
It's an insidious drug....mainly, to my mind, because there's a huge element of social acceptance associated with it - if people used cocaine or heroin or even marijuana fractionally as much as alcohol is used, there would be stigma, never mind legal problems.
When i first quit, the thing I found most difficult was being in social situations - not the NOT drinking, but more the reaction from people when I said 'no thanks' or went for non-alcoholic drinks....there was a sense from people that there was something wrong with me, or that by not drinking, i was judging them negatively that they were? These days it's much easier - mostly because I simply avoid those situations, but even when I am in them, I can just pull the vegan-card - most beers/wines aren't vegan...involving animal products as ingredients, or part of the production process.
Well done man - wanted also to say that it takes big cahones to face the problem, and even bigger ones to go and get help with it - kudos to you : )
right.....that's plenty of the mushy stuff.....roll on the disagreement-material lol!!!!!
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