by Moralspain » Mon, 10 Oct 2011 21:27
BTW we encourage you guys to offer your available times to your opponent when sending your 1st message (if possible of course).
What we usually find when checking PMs is the following (70% of the times at least)
Example:
Player A
October 10 at 10:00 PM
Hello mate, when can you play our match?
Player B
October 11 at 8 AM
Hi, i'm online now
(Notice that most of the guys don't check the PMs every 5 minutes, so what usually happens here is that your rival reads the message 2 hours later, 1 day later...)
And here we're officially in a vicious circle
Player A October 12 at 12 AM CET
When can you play? i'm online now
Player B October 13 at 10 AM CET
I'll be on in 10 minutes if you wanna play
and this goes on until the deadline, if they're lucky they'll get the match played but they have low probabilities.
From our experience we think that offering times to play is always a better option. I do know that some times this is impossible because some of you guys have busy weeks and you can not assure your opponent an exact time to play.
All the above said is only thinking in your best interest, we have no problems if you wanna keep arranging your matches that way, no problem at all.
Never underestimate the pain of a person, because in all honesty, everyone is struggling. Some people are just better at hiding it than others.