Equity, you know my point of view about over sized players

I am not going to get into explaining it again....I mean, to each his own.
The_specialist invited me for a full match, and then we happen to meet in WT. I congratulated him on a win, I have told him that nothing he does affected my decision, it is simply a preference. To be honest Equity, I am not running to play with you either....that doesn't mean I don't respect your way of playing. You have fun...and you win....that is what counts. But given a choice, I will chose someone else to play against.....someone who I will enjoy playing. Again, to each his own.
I mean everyone knows me and my stupid strive for realistic tennis, I am not gonna change.
I have welcomed The_specialist earlier to ITST, he had a few questions and a scheduling issue.....I helped him as a host.
Please guys, do not confuse my writings on forum/pm/etc. as a player with the way I host. I am well aware of the rules and I think I am a decent host. If you don't like the way I host tourneys, complain to management.
I pointed out to specialist some things, I was very clear whats against the rules and what is not....I have said it is his choice how to play.....but I strongly believe in more fun in SIM way of play. After all it is his choice.
To The Specialist:
I don't know why you come back to you being your brother. I had my fun with the obvious similarities and the fact that you ARE his brother in another thread. I was simply eluding that you rush to make decisions about me, even go as far as giving me advise....while not being here long enough and not knowing me. I actually thought we had a nice conversation after the match, you know, on good terms with jokes being thrown by both of us....I omitted it from my quote earlier, didn't know you felt so strong about it. Sorry for that. As for Fed and short slice, you said you read the forums....then you know all the arguments and what I will answer to that, so I won't even bother.
It is important to remember that we are all different people, we all cope with our losses, wins differently. What we do after the match is not necessarily a reflection of who we are. Saying you didn't enjoy the match and pointing out why, maybe a taboo, but that is what some people choose to do. Some people prefer to say GG and run away from XBOX, keeping their anger to themselves. For me, it is very easy to swallow loses when the player beats me fair and square, and complete opposite if it is not to my standard of fairness. But it is my standard nevertheless, and I must learn to respect that there are other standards. If I ever went out of line with anyone, I apologize for that. I am easy to get hot, but I cool off within minutes. I always lived my life this way, I hate the whole passive aggressive crap.
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